When I mention Mother’s Day, what comes up for you?
I’m so happy for you if you are really celebrated, but many women are not.
Mother’s Day can be a tough day for many. Women who have children eagerly wait by mailboxes and telephones and on the edge of their seat to see if anyone will acknowledge their day.
Women who aborted or surrendered babies for adoption often spend Mother’s Day lamenting what could have been.
For women whose mamas have died or those who have crappy relationships with their moms, Mother’s Day dredges up lots of old memories that either hurt or cement the realization there won’t be any new ones.
There are women who are desperate for children, but have none. They are expected to put on brave smiles and exuberantly celebrate those who do.
Women in the throws of child-rearing years – the ones who could really benefit from a day off, are the ones who work overtime on Mother’s Day to make sure the shopping, meal prep, cleaning and decorating is done so their mother or mother-in-law can be recognized and honored.
Even husbands fret and worry about Mother’s Day. Is a card enough? How about chocolates? Should there be flowers?