Life Lessons From Tiny Ballerinas

Before everything was shuttered …

Mr. 4-Ever and I, along with hundreds of others, sat in a hot, crowded auditorium for hours to watch a parade of teeny girls in tutus and tights wobble and hop on the stage in front of us. 

Every mother and grandma and friend of the family attending knew that the performances of the budding ballerina they came to see was likely to be awkward and poorly-executed, but we each, to a woman, swelled with pride when the little girl we came to see appeared on the stage.

Sweetly Imperfect

During every number, tiny dancers took turns being out of sync, but as a group, they covered each other’s weakness, one remembering one part and another remembering another part so as a whole, they completed the number.

Occasionally, in moments of complete bewilderment, a ballerina wrangler – a preteen ballerina in matching leotard and tights – would appear from the wings to prompt and shoo her mini versions through their next step.

The sweet ballerina we came to watch, was on the stage for not quite two minutes. She was in lipstick and rouge for the first time. Bravely she swayed and pirouetted nearly on cue. She curtsied to thundering applause and cheers. After the recital, she carried flowers in her arms as if they were an infant, beaming under the praise and adoration of the few of us who were there just for her.

Lessons from the stage

Each little ballerina did the best she could.

Each was celebrated for her effort. None were chastised for missing a step or forgetting a turn.

What if you and I could be the body of Christ, as friends and congregants,
do our personal best and cover each other’s weaknesses without judgment or envy?

Each ballerina was delighted just to be on the stage.

Though it only lasted a minute or two, each one was thrilled to have her opportunity. No pouting about not having the lead. No fussing because she wore yellow instead of pink. Just happy to have a role in the recital.

What if you and I could be happy to be in the role God has us in for this season without grumbling or comparing what we don’t have to others? What if we embraced the role God has us in and made it our own without fear or hesitation?

The mini ballerinas radiated under the praise.

What if you and I learned to receive compliments for doing our best even if our best wasn’t perfect? What if we knew that God was pleased with our effort and motive and that it was enough to secure his affirmation?

When they got stuck they looked to each other for help.

When all were flummoxed, a bigger version of themselves appeared from nowhere to guide and coax them to a glorious next step.

What if we followed the Holy Spirit’s leading as easily as the mini ballerinas followed their wranglers? What if we were willing to admit we need help and could find a wrangler to help you figure out what your next step is?

Taking a cue from tiny ballerinas

Let’s take a lesson from the tiny ballerinas and dance on the stage God has given us.
Watch for cues and ask for directives from the Holy Spirit or his representative to wrangle us back into step with the Father – remembering that God is watching, applauding, and adoring each obedient imperfect step.

Where is God using you and how are you cooperating with Him? Leave me a comment below. 

Verse for the day: Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward. You are serving the Lord Christ. – Colossians 3:23-24

Prayer: God release us to dance and play and work in the space and season we are in right now. Reminds us to keep an eye open for ways to encourage and compliment one another. And, please God, teach us to be able to radiate the joy of your undivided and loving attention. We ask all these things in the Name of Jesus. Amen


  1. Tracey Robinson on February 8, 2021 at 1:11 am

    Robyn thank you for this wonderful reminder.

    • Robyn Dykstra on February 8, 2021 at 2:54 pm

      Hey Tracey! My pleasure. Thanks for posting. What an encouragement to me!

  2. Joan Blatt on February 8, 2021 at 4:31 am

    What a wonderful read!! Keep them coming.

    • Robyn Dykstra on February 8, 2021 at 2:53 pm

      Will do Joan. Great to hear from you!

  3. Debora Kaminski on February 8, 2021 at 2:03 pm

    What a great Analogy. I had a little ballerina who grew into a big ballerina. People would tell me their eyes were just drawn to her. Even in that, I think about ot how Gods eyes are drawn to us, how he wants us to succeed and turn to him. Girl, it is a crazy time In life. People are at their wits ends-myself included. Launching a business is a season of being perfectly imperfect. God continues to shed new light on the purpose he has for my life. I’m now working on the mom and daughter relationship with moms. It’s a perfect fit. And I’m momming a new little puppy. It’s sweet…and exhausting! Praying for you, sister. Thank you for your weekly encouragement in your posts! ??

    • Robyn Dykstra on February 8, 2021 at 2:49 pm

      Crazy times is right! Knowing we dance in the spotlight of God’s love and attention helps. Love the new direction, what a perfect fit for you. Well done spreading Good News. Mess to message! 🙂

  4. Barb on February 8, 2021 at 9:07 pm

    R0byn, i enjoyed today’s devotional and it’s so true. We so often (or I do) let our feelings get in the way of being who the Lord wants up to be. Keep up the good work. Barb

    • Robyn Dykstra on February 8, 2021 at 9:11 pm

      Thanks so much, Barb.
      I appreciate you writing!
      Means a lot. 🙂

  5. Mary Jane Anderson on February 9, 2021 at 2:01 am

    This is so very true. We have been going thru many trials/tribulations this year. We know God is always with us, filling us up with his love, strength, & healing.
    Thank you for reminding me about how others help us. We have been helped by many family & friends,
    God bless you & your ministry.
    I heard you at the Ladies Seminar in Knox, PA.

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